One of the biggest stressors I hear from parents before a photo session is “I have no idea what to wear.” After booking one of my sessions, I always send over a prep guide- it includes information about what to wear, makeup tips, and helping your children get ready.

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For those wondering, here are my top three tips:

First and foremost, be yourself. If you hate dresses, don’t wear one. If your daughter is super into high waisted jeans and is confident in them, then let her rock them. If you adore items that are off the shoulder, then choose your favorite. Really the only big don’t in this arena are shirts with graphics or words/phrases on them.

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Make sure the clothes FIT and the fabric is flattering. For kids, when clothes are too big, the outfit becomes distracting and the child is no longer the star. We want to see that adorable baby belly or their long lean limbs from a growth spurt. For adults, clothing that accentuates your favorite features is the most flattering. For example- awesome curves? Accentuate your waist. Great calves? Choose a short skirt. Fantastic boobs, a V-neck or wrap dress. When you are trying your outfit on- look in the mirror and do the following- sit, stand, twirl, and bend to see how it looks from various angles. When you’re choosing a fabric, veer away from ones that are too thin or clingy (and not in a good way). Thicker and texturized fabrics will fall more smoothly along your frame.

What color to wear? Choose a complimentary color theme (but avoid neon, it doesn’t show up well in photographs) and make sure each person has a unique look. While the styles from 1992 have returned, the matchy-matchy look has not. I like to have Mom start with her outfit first. From there, you can develop the color scheme around that. Choosing colors that are within the same color palate allows you to have a cohesive look without overwhelming the frame with one color. When it comes to patterns, simple and small designs are okay- just make sure that if one person has on a pattern, others have on solid colors and/or layers that integrate colors that are part of the pattern.

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In the end, even with all that information, I want you to show up with an open heart in clothes that are representative of who you are. I’m always happy to help with this part of your getting ready process when wanted. I have many parents that text me outfit options in advance or ask about colors and patterns, and I’m happy to assist at putting together a cohesive collection of outfits. I can’t wait to see your shining faces!